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Rest is Best

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I was watching Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood with my one-year-old nephew the other day. It was the episode where Daniel has to stay home sick from school.

I didn’t think much about it at the time, but as my 6-year-old has been home sick the past few days, a song from that show randomly popped into my head again — “Rest is Best.”

The message of the song in a nutshell is this: When you’re sick, you need to rest in order to get better.

Pretty simple concept, right?

It’s an instinct really — when our bodies get sick (or even just tired), what do we feel like doing??

Absolutely nothing!!!

Our bodies instinctively tell us to rest.

But there’s more to “resting” than just sleeping 18 hours a day and then lying on the couch watching I Love Lucy reruns for the other 6.

Rest alone will not make us “all-better” – we also need to follow doctor’s orders, eating, drinking, and taking the proper medications to be made whole again.

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Just like our bodies, our souls need rest too.

And while it may sound counterintuitive to get up early for church on a Sunday morning in order to find rest — Jesus says we can only find true rest in Him:

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls” (Matthew 11:28–29).

You see, Jesus not only knows we’re tired, he knows the reason we’re tired as well — we’re sick.

Sick and tired. Great combination, right?

We’re sick with a terminal disease called sin — and we’re tired because we spend our daily lives battling the side effects of it — fear, hate, depression, loneliness, insecurity, heartaches and pains…the list could go on and on.

Jesus said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners.” – Mark 2:17

Jesus is often considered The Great Physician.

And the church? A hospital for the sinners he heals.

If you haven’t yet been healed of your sin, come to Jesus and follow His prescription:

Believe that He is the Son of God.

Confess your faith publicly.

Be baptized for the remission of your sins.

If you’ve already been healed by the Great Physician through belief and baptism, well…let me just say: don’t forget to keep your “follow-up appointments.” 😉

As an oncology nurse, I educate patients about this all the time: a patient may be considered to be in remission after completing their initial cancer treatments, but they should still continue regular follow ups with their physician as directed.

Why?

Well, these follow-ups are often referred to as surveillance visits — where the doctor will monitor and assess for any signs of a recurrence at regularly scheduled intervals.

In much the same fashion, God also calls the church together in weekly intervals — knowing that we need these regularly scheduled “check-ups” to keep us accountable and to make sure the dreadful disease of sin is not overtaking our lives once more.

But more than some sort of a weekly support group for sinners, our weekly worship to God alongside fellow Christians is commanded and designed for the glory of God.

After all, He deserves our thanks and praise more than any earthly physician does.

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To those who overlook the importance of meeting together as a whole body of believers on the first day of the week, let me just say…

When we don’t heed the call to worship God and remember Jesus’s death on the first day of every week, we become like patients who don’t keep their follow up appointments.

Often referred to as being “lost to follow up,” these patients are almost invariably prone to poorer outcomes than the ones who strictly followed the directions of their doctor.

Forsaking the assembly of the church is nothing short of signing yourself out of God’s “hospital for sinners” ASA (against spiritual advice) — putting yourself at high risk of a similarly poor outcome, spiritually speaking. (Hebrews 10:24-25)

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And lastly, there’s always those who rely on WebMD to diagnose and treat their medical problems.

The world says to find rest in self-care, vacations, retail therapy, spa days, fishing with your buddies on the lake, Netflix binges, and the list could go on and on…

But those are just like putting cheap bandaids on a gaping wound.

Jesus says we can find true rest in Him. Rest that’s more than just a bandaid. Rest that will heal our souls.

So who are you going to listen to?

The Great Physician…or some quack on the internet?

I’d go with Jesus, He’s never lost a patient yet. 😉

Oh…and for what it’s worth…His bedside manner is impeccable. 🥰

Until next time…

-PWAP

From Rags to Riches

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The amazingly intricate patchwork quilt pictured above is a famous Civil War-era relic known as the Reconciliation Quilt. Created by Lucinda Ward Honstain in 1867, it depicts scenes of everyday American life in the aftermath of the Civil-war.

According to the clarafordfoundation.org, the Reconciliation Quilt was sold at Sotheby’s in 1991 for $264,000!!!! — making it the most expensive quilt ever sold at auction.

Who would’ve thought that what started out as just some scraps of fabric and spools of thread, could one day be worth so much!

Mind = Blown 🤯

I don’t know if I’d ever pay that much for a quilt (let’s face it, $264,000 is more than I paid for my first house!!!😳😳😳), but I still think they are soft, cozy, and beautiful.

I especially loved my great-grandmother’s quilts. I remember going to her house when I was little, grabbing a peppermint stick from the mason jar on her counter and staring in awe at all of the beautiful patchwork she had lying around her house.

She made things like pillows and baby dolls, but “Grandma Abernathy” had a special talent for taking tattered pieces of fabric and lovingly sewing them together into magnificent quilts.

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My dear friend Miss Ruth wrote to me the other day with an idea she had for one of my blog posts. She said, “I was looking at a quilt a friend had made, and the thought came to me that she makes quilts beautiful from scraps (of material); but what does God do? He makes scraps (wayward man) into things beautiful (when they obey).” 😊

And you know what? She’s exactly right.

Just like my great-grandmother, with a pattern and a purpose, these quilters take seemingly insignificant scraps and make them into something beautiful (and useful) — and often selflessly give their finished projects away as gifts to family and friends alike. ❤️

When we choose to give the tattered scraps of our lives to God in humble obedience, reconciling our will to His, God can turn the fabric of our lives into a magnificent “Reconciliation” Quilt of His own.

In fact, the Bible teaches us that “…all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28

The Bible is full of stories where God is threading people’s life events together for His purpose…and for our good.

Right now, we’re studying the life of Joseph in our Wednesday night Bible class. He’s kind of the perfect example of how God can take scraps and turn them into something beautiful — if only we’ll be faithful to Him.

Do you remember the story of Joseph? You probably do — you know, he was the one with the “Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat…”

(Or wait…maybe that was Donny Osmond??? 🤔)

😂😂😂😉 Anyhoo…Joseph was given that special coat because he was loved by his father — which unfortunately only made his brothers hate him even more.

The target of a murder plot, sold into slavery in a foreign land, falsely accused, and thrown into prison — Joseph’s life ended up as tattered and torn as his beautiful coat did.

And for a while, Joseph was seemingly forgotten by God…despite his faithfulness.

But behind the scenes, God was always there.

Sitting at his proverbial heavenly “sewing machine,” He was threading together the tattered pieces of Joseph’s life with a purpose and a pattern in mind.

As much as Joseph’s earthly father had loved him, he was about to find out that his Heavenly Father loved him even more.

God took Joseph’s dire circumstances as a slave and prisoner, and ultimately promoted him to second-in-command, right under Pharaoh himself — leading him to the conclusion that his brothers had meant “evil against [him], but God meant it for good…” (Genesis 50:20)

Joseph knew who was behind his rags to riches story. He knew who was sewing his scraps together. And he trusted that in time, God was making them into a beautiful…life.

Are you trusting God to do the same for you? He can turn your rags to a priceless quits too, if you will only let Him — if you will only be faithful to him, like Joseph.

Remember that really expensive quilt that we talked about before? The one that cost more than my first home?

Why was it sold for such a high price?

The materials themselves were certainly not worth that much. Neither was the labor.

But it’s a one-of-kind. It’s rare and beautiful and represents something profound in American history. So, therefore it has great value.

The value we put on something directly corresponds to the price we are willing to pay for it.

We too are each one-of-a-kind — rare and valuable in the eyes of God.

And God was willing to pay the highest price there is for our reconciliation — the precious blood of His son Jesus Christ.

And for those of us who choose to bring the scraps of our lives to the cross, He is faithful to weave them together for our good and His glory.

And the finished product will always be beautiful…and priceless.

Until next time…

– PWAP

All I Really Need to Know, I Learned From…

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Isn’t it ironic how some of life’s most important lessons aren’t learned in the classroom at all?

My high school English teacher, Mrs. Kotyuk, had a poster on her wall that humorously testified to this very fact.

It was one of those “All I Really Need to Know in Life, I learned from ________” posters.

I’m sure you’ve seen one before — and chances are, your teacher had one, too! 🤓

The concept for the posters came from a book written in 1986 titled, “All I Really Need to Know, I Learned in Kindergarten.”

And since then, there’s been no shortage of spin-off themes, ranging anywhere from Star Trek to Mexican hat-dancing 🤣 — each showcasing it’s own unique list of witty little tongue-in-cheek adages that apply to life.

The idea of life lessons learned outside the classroom never rang truer than it did last week when the kids were out of school for spring break, and we decided to take them to the local theme park.

I’ll tell you what, school may have been out, but visiting a theme park in peak season is an education all its own. 😳

And now I somehow feel strangely qualified 🤔 to write an “All I Really Need to Know” list of my very own 😳🤣😜😬.…

ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW, I LEARNED FROM A DAY AT THE THEME PARK:

1. Good things come to those who wait.

— that is, as long as the ride doesn’t experience technical difficulties and have to shut down after you’ve waited 2 hours in line. 🙄🙄🙄 (Not that I would know from experience or anything…🤣).

I guess we could’ve bought the “fast passes” that let you skip the line, but we’re a little too budget conscious (aka cheap) for that…

So, as I stood in the lines for hours on end, one of the thoughts that crossed my mind was: Why are there so many people willing to wait in a 2 hour line for a 3 minute ride — but won’t attend a 2 hour worship service that has eternal impact on their souls? 😔

Maybe it’s because it’s because in Christ’s kingdom, there are no fast passes. You can’t just buy your way out of line. In fact, He promises that “the last shall be first, and the first last.” (Matthew 20:16)

What that really means is that those who cut ahead in this life for their own personal gain, won’t be rewarded by God in eternity. But it’s those who wait patiently, putting the commands of God before their own desires, and the needs of others before their own needs, who will be rewarded in the final judgment.

2. Just enjoy the ride.

The lines may have been long, but the rides were still short — as is this life.

In fact, sometimes this life feels like a roller coaster itself! We’re buckled in to the very end and in some ways all we can do is hang on and try to enjoy the ride.

Though we are ultimately fixing our eyes on Jesus and looking forward to Heaven, through the ups and downs, twists and turns, God does wants us to find some joy in this short life —

“Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him, for this is his lot.” – Ecclesiastes 5:18

3. The best things in life are free.

They say you get what you pay for…well, except at theme parks, where you end up paying $75 dollars for a couple of chicken tenders and a non-refillable coke. 🤣

(My husband learned this the hard way …turns out the $5 one-use paper cups now have little sensors on the bottom that detect if you try to fill your drink more than once. 🙄)

But, wait! The good news is, for the low, low price of only $18, you can buy a reusable plastic cup that is good for unlimited fountain drink refills throughout the park.

Sound like a steal? Sure, compared to the paper cups…but the only catch is it’s only good for one day…if you bring the cup back to the park with you the next day, you have to pay an additional $11 to reactivate it. 😳

Listen, I may be thirsty, but I ain’t that thirsty. I’ll take my chances on an ambulance and a saline drip before I consent to that kind of highway robbery. 😂

And in comparison, Jesus’ offer has never sounded sweeter.

His water is free: “…I will give of the fountain of the water of life freely to him who thirsts’” (Revelation 21:6) and “…whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” (John 4:14)

4. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

It’s not just the crowds, costs, and coasters that are hard on you at the theme park, but sometimes it’s the elements themselves. Weather-wise, you never know what a day at the park is going to throw your way.

Cold and rain? Heat and sun? Either way, it pays to plan ahead and come prepared.

And it starts with listening to the forecast and heeding it’s warnings.

If there’s a chance of rain, bring your umbrella…or you’ll end up soaked and miserable…(or out $20 bucks for an oversized plastic trash bag, otherwise known as a poncho 😂).

If the forecast calls for sunny skies, you’ll definitely need plenty of sunscreen —- either that or plenty of aloe after it’s all said and done. 😂

God says we should heed the warnings in our spiritual lives as well…he wants us to be conscientious and prudent in our spiritual actions…not just “learning the hard way” and then asking for forgiveness all the time —

“And Samuel said, ‘Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams.’” – I Samuel 15:22

5. Never judge a book by its cover.

Our sons have recently taken an interest in the Harry Potter books, which is why we chose to visit Universal over Disney this time — so they could check out the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. 😊

But it didn’t take long to realize that we weren’t the only ones there for that reason. The Harry Potter section was easily the most popular part of the park.

People were not only flocking to the rides there, but to the shops as well. They came out carrying interactive wands, drinking butter beers, and wearing the classic Hogwarts’ robes all around the park.

Honestly, it was neat to see such enthusiasm…but there were some people wearing robes that I would have otherwise never pegged as Harry Potter fans.

I witnessed people of all races, ages, and sexes traipsing about the park, much as if they were at Hogwarts itself.

And that’s what really got me thinking…how often are we guilty of pegging people as not likely to receive the gospel? When in reality, they could be the very ones who need to hear it most!

How can we deny any individual the opportunity to one day wear a robe…and a crown? (Mark 16:15)

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Despite the crowds and the costs, at the end of the day, the kids said they had the best day ever, they both got to ride their first big roller coaster (and I had personally learned a lot more than I bargained for)…so I’d call it a success.

But our “dogs were barking” so-to-speak, we were tired, and just ready to go home!

How about you? Have you ever felt that way?

Spiritually speaking, this life has its wonderful moments, but it can also wear you down worse than a day at the theme park! But the reality is, we won’t be here forever. Our admission is limited and our passes will eventually expire.

When they do, will you be ready to go home?

The only way to know for sure is by obeying God’s Word…after all, when it really comes down to it…

All You Really Need to Know, You Can Learn From the Bible. ❤️

Until next time…

-PWAP

Happy St.“Patrick’s” Day

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Today, my oldest son who is 10, stayed home sick from school. In typical sick-kid fashion, he spent half the day lying on the couch just watching cartoons — a 2 hour-long SpongeBob SquarePants marathon, to be exact.

In honor of St. Patrick’s Day, Nickelodeon cleverly featured back-to-back episodes of SpongeBob starring a character named (you guessed it)…Patrick. 😉

In case you’re not familiar, Patrick is SpongeBob’s trusty sidekick.

He’s a large, salmon-colored starfish, who is always there to lend a hand for any of SpongeBob’s crazy schemes — he is NOT, however, the brains of the operation…😂.

🤔 Come to think of it, neither is Sponge Bob, but that’s a whole ‘nother can of worms…😂.

Anyway, as if being less astute than SpongeBob wasn’t bad enough already, in a particular episode we watched today, Patrick’s brain completely stops working altogether. 😳

In order to save him, SpongeBob came up with a brilliant idea to “unplug” Patrick’s brain and then plug it back in 🙄…kind of like you do when you need to “reboot” your computer. 😂

Hmmm…who knew it also worked on brains…I can think of a handful of people I’d like to try that on…🤔🤭🤫…

But I digress…🤣

The good news is…SpongeBob’s idea worked!

Not only did Patrick get his brain back, he was even way smarter than before!

But this happy turn of events didn’t go smoothly for long. Before you know it, Patrick’s newfound intellectual prowess starts going to his head…literally.

He begins using all kinds of “highfalutin” words and condescending tones to criticize his friends for their supposed ignorance.

I’ll spare you the quirky details, but Patrick eventually comes to his senses and sets out on a mission to become his old self again — the sweet, humble, fun-loving (albeit slightly dense) guy he was before. ❤️

The only problem? Patrick’s new brain goes about trying to learn these virtues the same way you might try to learn math or science — cut to scenes of Patrick desperately scribbling equations on a chalkboard and scanning the pages of textbooks like, “The Physics of Fun.” 🤣

Of course, the hilarity of it all lies in the fact that this is obviously NOT the way to go about finding kindness, humility, or fun at all. Even kids can appreciate the irony in that.

Kindness and humility cannot be calculated in some sort of an equation. Just as having fun is not rocket science.

And simply put, neither is having faith.

We live in a society that values brains like Patrick’s…brains that “know” a lot. And we’re arguably a generation “knows” more than any other generation before us — and what we don’t know, we Google. 😉

For better or for worse, information is at our fingertips more than ever before.

But in our own quest for intellectual prowess, we are in danger of missing the bigger picture — and in danger of becoming people who “…are always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.” – II Timothy 3:7

The deep and meaningful things of life — things like truth, love, faith, and wisdom aren’t rocket science.

Just like Patrick was totally overthinking it, we sometimes fall into that trap as well.

But God has chosen to “make wise the simple” (Psalm 19:7) and Jesus promises that those who seek Him will find Him.

Seeking Him means spending time in His Word.

“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.” (Romans 10:17)

It doesn’t take years of study to come to a knowledge of the truth. I think about the Ethiopian eunuch, the Philippian jailer, and the thief on the cross — none of them “knew it all” before believing…they took the first step in faith.

The Gospel of Christ is just as powerful today as it was during the first century. It convicts and cuts to the heart. It is living and active — alive and applicable as much today as it was 2000 years ago.

You don’t need to know anything more than they did in the first century to believe and be baptized.

Don’t overthink it — it’s not rocket science.

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase…just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Until next time…

-PWAP

Brady’s Back, Baby

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Over the last 24 hours, “Brady’s Back” has been the biggest sports headline in America.

It’s official, Tom Brady is not — I repeat not — done with football yet.

Lol — I’m not gonna lie, when I first read those words yesterday, the first thing I did was google snopes to get the 411. 😂

Those headlines just couldn’t be right — right???

Wasn’t it only a couple of months ago that he announced his retirement???

I’m not even a football fan, but I was intrigued by the headlines…

…and after confirming that it really is true that Tom Brady, the oldest guy in the NFL, is headed back for yet another season as quarterback for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, I went from intrigued…to inspired. ❤️

Now, I will admit that I usually hate it when people put professional athletes up on pedestals, showering them with undue adulation, but the reason I find him inspiring has less to do with his success than it has to do with his failure.

As the reigning Super Bowl champs, the bar was set high last year for Tom Brady and the Buccaneers to repeat their championship once more.

When the Bucs fell short of that goal in the playoffs, their season came to a screeching halt — and so did Tom Brady’s career.

Despite all of his previous successes, Brady’s final season had ended in disappointment and failure.

And when he announced his retirement, it felt like a fairytale football career that didn’t get the “happily ever after” it deserved.

Do you ever find yourself feeling like that in your own life sometimes?

Through disappointing seasons of your own life, have you had times where you just want to throw in the towel? Moments where you feel defeated and want to say, “That’s it, I give up.”

I do. At least twice a week.

Maybe I’m being melodramatic (ok, I’m definitely being melodramatic), but sometimes when I’m making my kids’ school lunches at night, I just stand there looking around my house at piles of toys and dirty laundry, hearing them wrestling each other and praying between thuds that they don’t break a bone, and I just stop mid PB&J and think, “So this is it? This is how it all ends???” 😂😂😂

Maybe that’s why when I heard that Tom Brady was coming back, it resonated with me so much. It reminded me of Proverbs 24:16: “For though a righteous man may fall seven times, he still gets up; but the wicked stumble in bad times.”

You too might be down for a moment, but the righteous don’t stay there forever. Dust yourself off and get back up again — every great comeback always starts with a first step.

If Tom Brady can do it — so can you.

Because honestly, if you’re a child of God, no matter what you’re facing, you can rise up again from it — whether it be sin, temptation to sin, trials and turmoil, or just every day day-to-day life.

How do I know you can rise? Because you’ve got something even better than Brady has — you’ve got Jesus.

Brady relies on his own strength and stamina to win the game. But as Christians, our strength comes from Jesus (Isaiah 40:31) who appeared to have been “defeated” in death, only to rise up to eternal victory. And through Him, the Bible says we are “more than conquerors.” (Romans 8:33-39)

And as Tom Brady enters this next season, possibly his last, he still has to wonder whether or not this one will end in victory or defeat.

As Christians, we don’t have to wonder. The victory has already been won for us through Jesus Christ.

“These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33

So, don’t give up. Get up.

Stay on His team and make as many comebacks as you need to endure ‘til the end. We may fall, but we will rise back up again…and one day, it will be eternally.

Until next time…

-PWAP

This too shall pass…

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“This too shall pass”…nobody really quite knows where that famous colloquial phrase originated…but credit has been assigned to many different possible origins…including ancient Persian, Buddhist, and Jewish sources. It’s also one of those phrases that people even sometimes mistake for a Bible verse (right up there with “God works in mysterious ways”). But alas, it’s not.

While we may never know the exact origins of the phrase, consensus is that it’s been around for a while — and from what I hear, it was even one of Abraham Lincoln’s favorite sayings.

As I was driving to pick the kids up from school today, the phrase popped into my head.

I was just driving down a two-lane road minding my own business, going the speed limit (maybe even 5 over 🤭), when all of the sudden, a big Dodge pickup that was all jacked-up on monster truck tires came up behind me loud and fast in my rear-view mirror.

He quickly gained on me until he couldn’t gain anymore. Something about the way his headlights were blaring in my rear view mirror even at midday, made me feel like he was metaphorically breathing down my neck…pressuring me to go faster or move out of the way.

But I know that road. And I know the speed limit. And I also know there’s a state trooper who likes to create a speed trap for unsuspecting drivers a few times a month, so no way was I going to let this guy pressure me into speeding up.

After a minute or so, he finally got the gist, and swerved into to the left lane, putting the pedal to the metal and leaving me to eat his dust.

But honestly, I was glad he passed me — it was a relief.

As I watched him speed down the road until his taillights disappeared completely, the phrase “this too shall pass” came to mind.

When we’re traveling the road of life, minding the speed limit (and our own business), there’s often times the enemy comes up and presses in hard on us as we are trying to stay within God’s limits.

Just like one of those aggressive drivers, he’ll come in looking all big, bad and intimidating…trying to pressure us to violate God’s laws.

“For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” – 2 Corinthians 4:17-18

The things of this earth are transient, fleeting, passing away — and that includes the temptations, persecutions, and other “light momentary afflictions” that the devil tries to bring about in our lives, provoking us with his own brand of “road rage.”

So…keep your eyes on the road. Keep those hands at 10 and 2— or better yet, let Jesus take the wheel — and just let the devil pass.

Because it will pass…it may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass. 😉

Until next time…

-PWAP

The Life of the Party

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It’s Saturday night — got any plans?

Not me…I’m not much of a partier. I’m just cooking dinner, doing laundry, and trying to talk my husband into watching a chick flick with me later tonight. 😂

Speaking of chick flicks…do you remember the movie Father of the Bride?

Unless you were living under a rock in the 1990’s, you probably do. It’s one of my favorites — the unofficial Father of all romantic comedies. 😉

In the film, Steve Martin stars as George Banks, your typical tight-waddish father-of-the-bride. His hilarious foil is Franck Eggelhoffer, an over-the-top flamboyant wedding planner played by Martin Short.

In one of my favorite scenes, these two polar opposites are going back and forth with each other (yet again) over the event budget. 🙄

Tired of George raining on his parade, Franck and his party-planning assistant Howard Weinstein proceed to break out in a catchy little tune:

🎶 “Every party has a pooper, that’s why we invited you, party pooper, party pooper…” 🎶

🥳💩😂😂😂😂😂💩🥳

I guess weddings tend to bring out the best and worst in people. They’re just stressful like that. 🤷‍♀️

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In John 2:1-11, we read about a time that Jesus went to a wedding party, too. You know, the one where He performed His first recorded miracle? Turning water into wine is quite the party trick, if you ask me! 🎉

I think that proves Jesus is definitely NOT a party pooper.

In fact, he’s quite the opposite…Jesus is the Life of the party — “The way, the truth, and the life,” to be exact. 😬😬😬😬 (John 14:6) 😉

And as followers of Christ, we should be, too.

On Saturday nights, some Christians forget that Christ is living in them — and they try to be the “life of the party” by the world’s standards — in what they wear, what they drink, what they say, where they go, and what they do, fearing that others may call them a party pooper if they don’t conform.

Christians are called to be different though. The Bible says we shouldn’t be conformed to the world (Romans 12:2), but transformed. We are to be in the world but not of the world, so-to-speak.

“But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.” (I Peter 2:9)

People may call you a party pooper…they may even sing you a little song about it 🤣…but if that’s the worst we face in persecution, we should count it all joy.

Whatever your weekend plans may be, remember who you are…remember that Christ lives in you and that we are meant to be so much more than just the life of the party…rather we are the Life of the party instead.

Until next time…

-PWAP

Forgive and Forget

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The other day, my six-year-old son came running to me from the playroom with a flushed face and big crocodile tears in his eyes.

Assuming he had been wrestling around with his big brother again, I braced myself for impact as I anxiously asked, “Buddy — what’s wrong?!??”

He buried his head in the arm of my chair as he broke down into full-on sobs. I stroked and patted his little back, waiting to hear what had happened.

Eventually, through his tears he got a few words out a a time: “Mom…I’m…so…sorry!!!”

“For what?!?” I said.

“Remember that time…I broke the…the…the pirate flashlight? I’m sorry!!!”

Despite his conviction, I honestly couldn’t remember the incident at all …but I knew what he was referring to because he’s told me this story before at random intervals. Always with tears in his eyes. 😔🥺 He’s my youngest and my most sensitive child.

The supposed transgression apparently happened a few years ago when we were living in our previous house. From what I’m told, I bought each of the boys a new toy, but because my younger son liked his older brother’s toy better, he immediately threw his own flashlight to the ground, causing it to break. He couldn’t have been more than 3 or 4 years old at the time.

I said, “Buddy, you were so small…you didn’t even know any better.”

He began to cry again.

“Yes, Mom…I did know that it was wrong — but I did it anyway.”

I hugged him tightly…it was obvious his heart was breaking and mine was breaking for him! I looked at his quivering lip and tear-stained cheeks, and said, “Buddy, don’t worry — I forgive you…I forgave you a long time ago for that…and I don’t even remember it anymore!”

The next morning, I got up and as I was brushing my teeth, a thought hit me. It’s not a new thought by any means, but it nonetheless hit me in a very new, very freeing way…

God forgives me.

There’s been so many days that I’ve come to God in prayer, still riddled with guilt and shame over past sins.

He doesn’t literally speak back to me in prayer, but through His Word the Bible, it’s as if God is saying: I forgive you…I forgave you for that a long time ago…and I don’t even remember it!

“For I will forgive their iniquities and will remember their sins no more.” – Hebrews 8:12

“The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in loving devotion. He will not always accuse us, nor harbor His anger forever. He has not dealt with us according to our sins or repaid us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His loving devotion for those who fear Him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.” -Psalm 103: 8-13

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For in Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set you free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the flesh, God did by sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful man, as an offering for sin. He thus condemned sin in the flesh, so that the righteous standard of the law might be fulfilled in us, who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.” – Romans 8:1-4

But there is only one way to take part in the forgiveness of God — by becoming His child.

Just like my son came to me for forgiveness…if we are children of God, we can come to our Father in the same way, also!

Because “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.” -Psalm 103:13

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” – 1 John 1:9.

If you are already a child of God and struggle with believing that God forgives you, I would suggest listening to a sermon called “Saved Without a Doubt” by Don Blackwell . All you have to do is click on the underlined words and it will take you straight to the video on YouTube. His message was a blessing to me and I hope will be to you as well.

Until next time…

-PWAP

50 Shades of White

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My parents are literally DAYS away from closing on their new home. There’s LOTS of last minute detail work going on to prepare for the final inspection.

To help speed things along, the other day my dad offered to help the painters do some touch-up work. So with a can of paint and a brush in hand, he went to work, dabbing away at any little nicks and smudges that needed retouching.

Ironically, most of the paint colors my parents chose for their house are all variations of the color white — Jasper White for the exterior, Origami White for the interior, and Pure White for all of the the baseboards and trim.

Now, if you haven’t been to the paint section at Lowe’s in a while, you’re probably scratching your head right now thinking “a white’s a white, isn’t it????”— and to that, all I can say is…bless your heart. 😂😂😂

Actually, there are SO many “different” whites to choose from nowadays…that after a while, it sort of makes your head spin. 😵‍💫

It’s like one minute you’re standing in a home improvement store looking through paint swatches and the next you’re suddenly sucked into a “white hole” of endless options.

And the longer you stare at the paint chips, the more they begin blurring together like the vast white sands of a New Mexico desert, until everything around you seems like nothing short of a distant mirage.

That is, until a sales associate wearing a blue vest taps you on the shoulder and says, “Ma’am, is there anything I can help you with?” 😂

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With sooooo many different whites to choose from, how DO you tell them apart?!?

The trouble is, when viewed individually, each white looks…well, white.

But according to today’s top designers, each shade of white has what they call an undertone.

An undertone is the hint of color that lurks just beneath the surface and ultimately affects your overall hue — causing it to look either cool, warm, or neutral. A cool undertone is generally associated with blues, pinks, or reds. A warm undertone is generally more peachy, golden, or yellow.

The trick to determining the undertone? Hold your swatch up to a “pure white.” Designers suggest using a plain white sheet of basic copy paper…and voila! The undertones jump right out.

This advice never rang truer than it did after my dad finally finished touching up those walls and texting pics of the progress to my mom…it was at that point we realized something had gone terribly wrong…😂.

Due to a mix up in paint lids, my dad (who is legally colorblind and can’t tell the difference between red and green let alone between two slightly different shades of white) had inadvertently been touching up the Origami White walls with PURE WHITE PAINT! 😱😂🥴😳😭🤯😵🤭

I think my mom was half tempted to flip her proverbial paint-lid over the whole debacle…but you know what they say…

…2 wrongs don’t make a WHITE. 😂😂😂🤭

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And that’s when I started thinking…

Just like all the various shades white out there, there are seemingly infinite shades of “truth” to choose from nowadays, too…and after a while, it all sort of makes your head spin. 😵‍💫

In our current culture, we’re led to believe that there is no such thing as absolute truth, but rather that truth is relative and that everyone has their own “personal truth,” if you will.

These “personal truths” seem to hold their own when held to nothing but their own standards; just as the white swatches all appear to be a true white when viewed individually.

But when held to a piece of copy paper, the difference is apparent. And in spiritual terms, that plain piece of white copy paper is none other than the Bible.

Next to the Truth of God’s Word, any man-made truths only pale in comparison. God’s Word alone is the true litmus test.

Why? Because the scriptures are from God Himself (II Timothy 3:16-17), and He alone is the most Pure (Psalm 12:6), the most Holy (I Samuel 2:2), the most High (Psalm 46:2), and the most Righteous (Psalm 119:142).

By our own standards, we may walk around looking like “good” people — but make no mistake, God is not colorblind. And when judged by His holiness, we ALLLLL have undertones.

“As it is written: ‘There is no one righteous, not even one;” – Romans 3:10

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God…” – Romans 3:23

Thankfully, God knows we have undertones, and He’s provided a way to cover those impurities with “…the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot.” I Peter 1:19

“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” -Isaiah 1:18

It is only when we are spiritually washed in the blood of Jesus through baptism that our souls — whether red, yellow, black, or “white” — can become as white as snow (Romans 6:3).

Praise God.

Until next time…

-PWAP

Random Acts of Kindness

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When I found out that today is National Random Acts of Kindness Day, I couldn’t help but write a post. ❤️

As I was driving home this morning, I looked through the drizzle that was slowly collecting on my windshield and saw a rainbow starting to form in the sky.

I followed it all the way to the end of my street, where I was surprised at what was waiting for me at the end — It was definitely NOT you’re typical pot of gold…but rather (as you can see from the picture) it was a “pot” of a completely DIFFERENT kind. 😂 💩🚽😂

I pulled into my driveway as the rainbow began to fade, but I couldn’t miss such a Kodak moment, so I hurriedly snapped this picture of my neighbor’s port-a-potty at the end of the rainbow.

In a strange sort of way, I thought it was a PERFECT representation of what “Random Acts of Kindness” day is supposed to be — trying to be a rainbow in someone else’s otherwise “crappy” day. 🥰💩🚽🌈😂

But we all know we don’t have to wait for February 17th to do this kind of stuff…

The Bible has so many admonitions for us to be kind each and every day!

“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4:32

“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” – Matthew 7:12

“But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.” – Luke 6:35

“So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.” – Galatians 6:10

So, look for someone today…and tomorrow…and the next day, who you can be a blessing to. It could be someone you live or work with — or someone out of the ordinary! I guarantee it will make your day as much as it makes theirs.

Mahatma Ghandi is often credited with the idea that, “We have to be the change we want to see in the world.”

The Bible, it seems, is leading us to a similar conclusion — We have to be the good we want to see in the world.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

We do good to spread good, but it’s not because WE are good — it’s because GOD is Good! Give Him the glory.

Maybe your random act of kindness today will be no more than a simple prayer for someone. Really, that’s the best place to start. (James 5:16)

And speaking of prayer…if you happen to be the recipient of an act of kindness today, don’t forget to thank God. 🙏🙏🙏 All good things ultimately come from Him and through Him. ❤️

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.” – James 1:21

If something kind or good happens to you today, you can be sure it’s ultimately from God. The moments of goodness and mercy we get to experience in this life are just one of the ways we know He loves us, that He wants to call us His children, and that He longs to have a relationship with you and me.

He proved that to us in the ultimate act of kindness — Jesus’ sacrificial death on the cross. (John 3:16)

How do we receive that love? Through belief and baptism. (Mark 16:16)

How do we love Him back? Keep His commandments. (John 14:15)

Until next time…

-PWAP

P.S. If you have any personal Random Acts of Kindness stories you would like to share, please comment! I would love to hear them! ❤️