50 Shades of White

My parents are literally DAYS away from closing on their new home. There’s LOTS of last minute detail work going on to prepare for the final inspection.

To help speed things along, the other day my dad offered to help the painters do some touch-up work. So with a can of paint and a brush in hand, he went to work, dabbing away at any little nicks and smudges that needed retouching.

Ironically, most of the paint colors my parents chose for their house are all variations of the color white — Jasper White for the exterior, Origami White for the interior, and Pure White for all of the the baseboards and trim.

Now, if you haven’t been to the paint section at Lowe’s in a while, you’re probably scratching your head right now thinking “a white’s a white, isn’t it????”— and to that, all I can say is…bless your heart. 😂😂😂

Actually, there are SO many “different” whites to choose from nowadays…that after a while, it sort of makes your head spin. 😵‍💫

It’s like one minute you’re standing in a home improvement store looking through paint swatches and the next you’re suddenly sucked into a “white hole” of endless options.

And the longer you stare at the paint chips, the more they begin blurring together like the vast white sands of a New Mexico desert, until everything around you seems like nothing short of a distant mirage.

That is, until a sales associate wearing a blue vest taps you on the shoulder and says, “Ma’am, is there anything I can help you with?” 😂

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With sooooo many different whites to choose from, how DO you tell them apart?!?

The trouble is, when viewed individually, each white looks…well, white.

But according to today’s top designers, each shade of white has what they call an undertone.

An undertone is the hint of color that lurks just beneath the surface and ultimately affects your overall hue — causing it to look either cool, warm, or neutral. A cool undertone is generally associated with blues, pinks, or reds. A warm undertone is generally more peachy, golden, or yellow.

The trick to determining the undertone? Hold your swatch up to a “pure white.” Designers suggest using a plain white sheet of basic copy paper…and voila! The undertones jump right out.

This advice never rang truer than it did after my dad finally finished touching up those walls and texting pics of the progress to my mom…it was at that point we realized something had gone terribly wrong…😂.

Due to a mix up in paint lids, my dad (who is legally colorblind and can’t tell the difference between red and green let alone between two slightly different shades of white) had inadvertently been touching up the Origami White walls with PURE WHITE PAINT! 😱😂🥴😳😭🤯😵🤭

I think my mom was half tempted to flip her proverbial paint-lid over the whole debacle…but you know what they say…

…2 wrongs don’t make a WHITE. 😂😂😂🤭

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And that’s when I started thinking…

Just like all the various shades white out there, there are seemingly infinite shades of “truth” to choose from nowadays, too…and after a while, it all sort of makes your head spin. 😵‍💫

In our current culture, we’re led to believe that there is no such thing as absolute truth, but rather that truth is relative and that everyone has their own “personal truth,” if you will.

These “personal truths” seem to hold their own when held to nothing but their own standards; just as the white swatches all appear to be a true white when viewed individually.

But when held to a piece of copy paper, the difference is apparent. And in spiritual terms, that plain piece of white copy paper is none other than the Bible.

Next to the Truth of God’s Word, any man-made truths only pale in comparison. God’s Word alone is the true litmus test.

Why? Because the scriptures are from God Himself (II Timothy 3:16-17), and He alone is the most Pure (Psalm 12:6), the most Holy (I Samuel 2:2), the most High (Psalm 46:2), and the most Righteous (Psalm 119:142).

By our own standards, we may walk around looking like “good” people — but make no mistake, God is not colorblind. And when judged by His holiness, we ALLLLL have undertones.

“As it is written: ‘There is no one righteous, not even one;” – Romans 3:10

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God…” – Romans 3:23

Thankfully, God knows we have undertones, and He’s provided a way to cover those impurities with “…the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot.” I Peter 1:19

Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” -Isaiah 1:18

It is only when we are spiritually washed in the blood of Jesus through baptism that our souls — whether red, yellow, black, or “white” — can become as white as snow (Romans 6:3).

Praise God.

Until next time…

-PWAP

Home for the Holidays

This time of year, a lot of people are thinking about going home for the holidays…others of us are busy preparing to host family or friends in our own homes.

My parents, on the other hand, are just waiting for the construction on their new home to be completed, so they can actually have a home of their own again for the holidays.

It’s been a long time coming for them and I know they are just dreaming of the day when they can have a chance to host Thanksgiving again.

If I think back to holidays past…I can see it now, my mom in the kitchen making her melt-in-your-mouth meatballs, yeast rolls that are as big as your head, and of course her famous cherry cheesecake — basically a feast fit for a king! (with enough left overs to feed an entire royal army…😂). Her philosophy? You have to “cook with love.” 💕

All the while, every year my dad is busy incessantly refilling everyone’s glass of sweet tea (especially his own, ahem 🙄) and simultaneously adding in corny dad-jokes like, “I’m a heavy drinker” and “I’ll eat you all.” (It’s a long story, but yes that last one actually happened 😂). I think that’s why it took so long for my sister and me to find a steady boyfriend growing up — or at least that’s what I’ll blame it on. 🤣

Most people, myself included, think of hospitality as having people into their homes. But the other day, the preacher at our church explained what the Biblical view of hospitality really means based on the original Greek word…and it actually made a whole lot of sense.

He explained that the Greek word for hospitality is actually a compound word, “philio-xenia” (hope I spelled that right, Brother Bill🤞).

“Philio” simply means “love” — Not a romantic kind of love, but more of a brotherly love. That word may sound familiar, since one of our American cities is actually named for it: Philadelphia…the city of brotherly love. ❤️

The second half of the word, “xenia” may not sound quite as familiar to you (actually, to me it sounds like a Japanese brand of TVs or something, but google says otherwise…🤷‍♀️). Anyway, this Greek word actually means “stranger.”

🤔 Aha! Just as I suspected…it turns out my parents have had this whole hospitality thing down pat all along! — Mom’s in the kitchen cooking with love, while Dad’s in the living room saying stranger things than any of the guests have ever heard. What more could be more hospitable than that??? 😂😂😂

😉 But seriously…by putting “brotherly love” and “stranger” together, you get the true meaning of hospitality — showing love to strangers.

The word “philioxenia” is used many times in the Bible and the sentiment of showing love to strangers is echoed even more frequently:

In Matthew 5:43-47 Jesus says, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”

Wow! The whole idea of hospitality really gets turned on it’s head when you start to think of it as more than just inviting friends and family over to show them a good time.

In fact, the true meaning of hospitality was perfectly demonstrated in the love Christ showed for us on the cross —in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us! (Romans 5:8-11) A sinner is not just a stranger in God’s eyes, as these verses go on to say — a sinner is actually an enemy of God himself. 😱

And yet Christ died for sinners…for strangers…for enemies…in what was the ultimate act of love and hospitality.

So this Thanksgiving, let’s remember that hospitality means so much more than a beautifully set table and a perfectly roasted Turkey (and sides😋).

Opening your home is one way to show love to strangers (I Peter 4:9), but it’s certainly not the only way.

We don’t even need a physical home to be hospitable…we just need to have humble, loving hearts that are willing to invite people into them — showing them the same kind of love, mercy, and grace that Christ has so graciously shown to us.

Because…as forgiving as your favorite stretchy pants are after Thanksgiving dinner — they can never compare to the forgiveness found in the blood of Jesus Christ.

Praise God for that. 🙏❤️🙏

Until next time…

-PWAP